1. What sets Mistress Xena apart from other Mistresses? I think maybe my physicality and unique background. From being a Competitive Bodybuilder, Black Belt Martial Artist and tv / movie stunt woman specializing in fighting and sword play. I have even been in a Bond movie!
2. What influenced you to embrace BDSM and become Mistress Xena? Whilst working at a charity event the Sex Maniacs Ball as specialist security I discovered a mind-blowing visual eye-opening world full of wonderful open-minded people....and was hooked!
3. What makes mistress happy? Reconnecting with loyal regulars or meeting interesting newbies, but a satisfyingly skilled barefoot worship session, will always put a smile on my face.
4. How would you describe Mistress Xena’s style? Very early on I was introduced to an artist called Eric Stanton (well worth a Google) and realized most of his drawings were quite similar to me. Shapely, muscular, busty women tormenting puny little men. Tight pencil skirt, high heels, satin blouses, very 50’s aesthetics. Classic Domina style.
5. What equipment do you have in your dungeon? Suspension, Whipping Stool, cage and rack, Custom articulating Bondage Chair, body bags etc and like so many Mistresses all the dildos, whips, clamps and hoods. Where my differs slightly is the aesthetics. The room was designed by a professional movie set designer and boasts red ruched ceiling, wall length mirrors no windows to the outside world, providing a totally immersive escapist fantasy environment.
6. What is your favourite piece of equipment and why? I managed to purchase a brand new violet wand and love it. It can be used safely all over the body, from mild to extreme. It even goes up to 12 unlike most slaves!
7. What would you consider a great session? For me, the fun is being able to key into the slave's fantasy and go on the journey with them. From a hardened Football Fan discovering his Feminine side or a Grown School Boy's ever erratic lines as I lean in closely to a Slave halfway round the world gaining satisfaction by phone or text.
8. What new developments have you got planned for this year? Given the unsettled times, I am concentrating on expanding on my Phone and Text sessions. I am also enjoying reliving all the great photo shoots I have done with slaves and other Mistress’ over the years. The plan is to make the over 20,000 images back catalogue available online soon.
9. What can a slave expect on their first visit? From the first ring of the bell the slave will be invited into my private discreet residence for my exclusive time. Then we will discuss the required type of session and any physical or medical restrictions. They are then offered two choices :
1. get in the dungeon and strip and await for me on their knees.
2 To be left to look at some suitable literature and watch as I descend the stairs in the highest heels and forcibly drag them into the dungeon. This builds up the tension and allows me to get in the right Mistress headspace and their subspace for the session. After, there is always time to use the bathroom and shower and an unhurried debrief before returning to the normal world.
I am a lifestyle and pro Domme and fetishist, who is incredibly passionate about kink.
I seek to make kink more accessible to those who have been made to feel as if kink is wrong, and knock down the boundaries and shame imposed by society. (shame kinks aside !)
I love to see the change I can make in someone, even in one session- watching sometimes a lifetime of shame melt away, as they learn that their sexuality is not shameful or wrong.
I am very open minded, approachable and fun. I'm intuitive so can take your fantasy where we both want it to go.
I am blessed with a Gorgeous figure, big peachy bum and full thighs.
My body desires and demands to be Worshipped.
I specialise in BDSM, fetish, power and role play.
I Offer phone sessions, cam sessions and real dungeon sessions in a sensational fully equipped multi room purpose built dungeon or domestic setting for those who prefer to be lured into the false sense of security a domestic setting brings.
I have a genuine passion for kink, and am creative, intuitive and intelligent.
I love working someone's mind out and making special and powerful experiences, it is immensely satisfying to me to see the effects I have on my subs.
I have many kinky passions, here are a few, not in order of preference:
small penis humiliation
whipping, torture, restraint, tease
RUINED orgasms and JOI
sploshing/ messy/ menstrual fetishes
nylon worship, foot worship
I love making peoples fantasies come to life, and get a lot of satisfaction out of creating that perfect scenario.
I genuinely enjoy meeting people and exploring fetishes together.
I see fetish and kink as a very normal part of the human condition.
There is no need to be embarrassed with me, I offer no judgement, just an open and safe environment to explore your and my desires.
I'm immensely approachable and fun, so you will be able to relax and fully enjoy playing together.
As long as you are respectful to Mistress, and Women in general, we will get along just fine.
I guide hapless supplicants down the rabbit hole of my desires. I train them with sadistically sensuality, harnessed madness, and an iron will.
And, like a spider having sucked all of the life from her victims, once I lose interest in my victims, I cast them out of my lair as emptied husks
You may offer me some of your unique kinks/perversion/ or fantasies to use as I mold your psyche to my will.
These are some of my favourites to work with, but you may amuse me with others:
Tease and Denial
I'm an English trans Dominatrix living in London you may address me as Mistress Valencia or Miss Valencia. Do not be misled by my youthful modelesque appearance I'm a deviant mistress with a devilish mind. I long for live willing bodies to assert my dominance, pushing your mind and body to its limits as you surrender control to me earning your place as my slave.
Ass Worship, Body Worship, Bondage, Breathplay/smothering, Caning, CBT - Mild (Cock and Ball Torture) Using canes, genital spanking, sensation play and squeezing, Face Slapping and spitting, Foot Worship, Flogging, House Maid/Sissy Maid Training, Humiliation/Verbal Abuse, Sensation Play, Spanking, Waxing, Tie & Tease, Whipping, Wrestling (playful)